Sweet Little Guy
Look at that face.
I could definitely go on and on about how much I wish he would never grow up, but it would only be a half-truth. This LG has come a long way in a year, and this was a great birthday. I'm sure that if I could measure his brain matter on the scale, it would look downright fat and plumpy compared to last year. If I forget to see the forest through the trees, it is easy to become frustrated with this one, but looking back over the year is a good reminder that he is growing, learning, and loving so much more every day.
Take Disneyland for example. When our family went to Disneyland in the fall of 2011, he really should have been on a leash. He ran away (notice this is not the same thing as getting lost) twice, got lost once, was licking handrails, and had a VERY hard time waiting in line. Most of the rides terrified him, and me and the BK were kind of done by about 3pm. Fast forward to spring 2013. We just got back from a fabulous trip to Disneyland, and though I was equipped with a monkey leash (yes for him if he needed it), I never even threatened to use it. He waited patiently and excitedly in lines that were twice as long (here's a recommendation to avoid Disneyland over spring break) as the last time we went, and he was an absolute joy. Just one year made such a difference.
He wanted Legos (shocker), and friends, and something fun to do. I was happy to have the party at Boondocks where they supply the food, entertainment and the cleanup. I provided the cake. I'm not quite sure whether my children (or the BK) will cherish or detest their homemade cakes, but you can't say I don't try.
Note to self: he will continue to grow up every day. He certainly doesn't look much like that little boy above, and I am trying to be grateful today and everyday for his curiosity, challenging behavior (which makes me both grow and growl), sweet loving snuggles (these may not last much longer), and bright smile. Happy Birthday to my amazing LG.